September 2019

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We all dream of the person who will someday sweep us off of our feet and make us forget about everything else. We dream of falling in love and meeting the person that we may someday spend the rest of our lives with. Because of these thoughts, however, we settle very fast in hopes that we won't have to search anymore. We justify the hurting actions of others because we can't wait to settle down. We settle for less than what we truly deserve.


Here are 10 things that you deserve in the love that you will one day find. Do not settle for anything less.
1. Someone who supports you.

We all deserve someone who supports our ideas, actions and goals in life. Even if sometimes they may not agree with what your dreams consist of. This person will cheer you on, regardless of what you want out of life. As long as what you're doing makes you happy, they will feel happy as well.
2. Someone who understands you.

You will have days where you won't be yourself and you will have days where you are MORE than yourself. The one who you should be with is the one who understands this. You will have your bad days and you will say things that you may regret, but this person will always be understanding and will do everything in their power to make this clear to you. They will know exactly what and what not to say at the moments when you most need the encouraging words, or in the moments where all you need is a reassuring hug.

3. Someone who values you and shows it.

This person should bring out your full potential. This person will see all of your flaws and fall in love with every single one of them. They will show you that your flaws aren't really flaws at all and they will make you feel more like yourself than you have ever felt before. You will be valued in the same ways that you have always valued the people who are lucky enough to be in your life.


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4. Someone who puts in effort.

Plain and simple, you deserve the effort that you are giving to someone else. If you are stressing out about someone or wondering why you're trying so hard for them when you get nothing in return, then this is not the person for you. You do not deserve a one-sided kind of love! You deserve someone's time. You deserve someone's kindness. You deserve someone who wants to put in effort to make you feel wanted.
5. Someone who is honest.

I'm sure you've heard it before and I'm here to remind you once again: the setting stone for any relationship is trust. A relationship cannot function properly without trust. Being honest goes a long way and I hope more than anything that if you're continuously being lied to, I hope you have the courage and strength to walk away from the disrespect that you are being dealt with. You deserve honesty, loyalty and everything good that lies in-between.
6. Someone who is respectful.

Respect is something that you should always value in any relationship that you have with another person. It is especially important for the relationship that you will someday have with the one you will potentially spend your entire life with. You should never let anyone belittle you. You deserve someone who respects every aspect about you. This means that they respect your family, friends, opinions and values. If they cannot give you the respect that you deserve, I hope you realize that someone in the world will.
7. Someone who makes you laugh.

We can all agree that life gets tough. On the days that the world seems to be caving in on you, you deserve someone who is going to make your day much more bearable. Because of this person, every day will be a day that you anticipate. When times get hard, you deserve someone who knows how to relieve you of pain and make your eyes glow with happiness, even if it is for a short second. You deserve endless smiles, cheesy jokes, belly-aching laughs and never ending happiness.
8. Someone who never makes you question what you are.

It truly hurts my heart knowing how many people there are in the world who are questioning their worth because of another person. With the person you deserve, you will never have to question if that person wants you in their life. They will make it loud and clear whether they want you in their life or not. If you have to question yourself or question them, then it's time to walk away. You deserve so much more.
9. Someone who makes time for you.

This one is so important. I have heard the "I'm too busy" excuse many times. Now don't get me wrong, I understand that life is a hectic thing. I understand that people are busy and it is important to focus on your personal goals, but I promise you that if you are important to someone, they will make time for you no matter how busy they truly are. If you're not a priority to someone, then they will always be "too busy." Know your worth and know that you're worthy of someone's time, no matter how precious that person's time is.

10. Someone whose actions speak louder than their words.

Words are extremely powerful things and sadly, sometimes words are used for the manipulation of others feelings. The term "actions speak louder than words" is definitely a term that I hold near and dear to my heart. If someone is telling you that they care about you, and they're not actually showing you that they care about you, then I promise you that they do not care about you. You deserve someone whose actions match up with their words. If they are saying that they love you, then they will show you that they love you. If they are telling you that they will always be there for you, then they will always be there for you. Be with the one whose actions match their words.

You are worthy of each and every one of these things. Do not settle for anything less than the one who will give you the world.
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You deserve somebody that often thinks of you and that calls you on the phone at the end of a long day, since they want to hear the sound of your voice before they go to bed.

You deserve somebody that wants to spend their drunken Saturday nights as well as their lazy lemonade Sundays with you.

You deserve somebody that makes plans with you on a Wednesday evening, as the weekend is just too far away, and that cares if you have to go to work the next day.

You deserve somebody that can watch you sleeping for hours at a time, and that can be content in the stillness and grace of that moment. You deserve somebody that steals a cheeky kiss when you are mid-sentence. You deserve somebody that happily pigs out on pizza with you in bed.

You deserve somebody that says definitely, not maybe, as well as follows through. You really deserve to hear a song on the radio, which does make you melt on the inside at the thought of this somebody.


You deserve somebody whose heart aches when yours does; somebody that wakes up next to you every morning feeling like they have hit the jackpot, and wondering what they did in the past to be so lucky. You really deserve somebody’s complete attention.

You deserve somebody that expresses themselves honestly and freely. This means no topic is off-limits, as well as you both feel heard.

You deserve somebody that often challenges the both of you; somebody that tries to become better on a daily basis and that encourages you to become better, as well. You deserve somebody you can count on to stick around when things get tough. You deserve somebody that always lifts you up.

You deserve somebody that takes time to pursue their own friendships and interests and lets you do the same, because they know that it’ll keep your relationship fresh as well as give you both the opportunity to grow as individuals—even while you are growing as a couple.
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We as a whole love legitimate and open individuals, yet obviously, puzzle is the zest of life. On the off chance that you wear your warmth on the sleeve, you have likely previously felt the weaknesses of such frame of mind throughout everyday life, as not every person means well.

Once in a while, individuals utilize the data they think about us so as to hurt us, or possibly, accomplish their very own objectives. It is difficult, yet it is shrewd to make a reasonable refinement between your own life and your expert life.


A considerable lot of our most profound privileged insights and wants, and also activities, ought to never be partaken in broad daylight, as they are best ensured on the off chance that they dwell inside our spirits. In addition, oversharing isn’t vital for holding, however it can frequently prompt various issues.

Here are a few things that we encourage you to keep for yourself, and never share them with everybody:


1. Past Resentments

Regardless of how profoundly certain negative stories hurt you before, the time has come to relinquish those sentiments, and not talk about them out in the open. Antagonism is debilitating, and individuals who hear you out think that its tiring simply like you feel terrible while relating. Rather, center around the present minute, and laws get inspiration the discussions with other individuals.

2. Family Problems

Keep the issues in the family, and don’t manhandle the privileged insights of your relatives on the off chance that they trusted in you. Regard other individuals’ privileged insights, and never break the certainty individuals have in you.

As indicated by Power Of Positivity:

“It is ill bred and indiscreet to bring accounts of contentions inside your family to other people. It depreciates you as an individual and can convey scorn to your family. 

Frequently, such stories are passed on until, down the line, the genuine story has changed totally. Issues in the house are best settled in the home; keep family issues inside the limits of your home and friends and family.”

3. Material Belongings

Despite the fact that you have an inclination to gloat about your most up to date effects, inaccessible outings, or selective adornments, keep those things for yourself, as you may sound presumptuous and fixated on the money related estimation of things. Attempt to be humble, and individuals will love it.

4. Income

Cash is anything but a subject to discuss out in the open, and when you uncover your budgetary circumstance, individuals begin taking a gander at you contrastingly without having the capacity to encourage it. Accordingly, keep such data to you, and spare yourself from any horrendous circumstances.

As per Sundeep Kataria, an enthusiastic professional of self-development, spirituality and meditation:

“The unforgiving actuality is that we live in a materialistic reality where individuals continually judge each other dependent on pay and money related worth. Tragically, different characteristics like spirituality, simple living, talents and education are not appended much esteem

. Indeed, even most reasonable people will capitulate to making a decision without pondering it. We as a whole need achievement and not a disappointment. In this world, the most shallow type of accomplishment is cash.

You may like to have genuine companions who don’t pass judgment on you based on how much cash and riches you have. Or maybe let there be companionship, holding, and relationship of you being a genuine individual and your esteem framework.”

5. Good Deeds

You ought to do constantly great, however you should never gloat about it. You don’t should be in the focal point of consideration nor get any open gratefulness for the things you do, as you will feel sincerely satisfied after an altruistic deed.

6. Enlightenment

Despite your decision, contemplation, care, religion, or sports, you ought not constrain it to other people, and ought not discuss it. You won’t persuade anybody to share your convictions regardless of the amount you endeavor to clarify how great it is.

7. Your Future Goals

On the off chance that you don’t impart your long haul objectives to other people, you are considerably more liable to accomplish them. To be specific, when you concede your desires, you feel the pleasure as though you have succeeded, and you work less a while later.

There will dependably be discussions that you can have in certain, controlled conditions, and things that ought to stay mystery, so ensure you generally make this qualification and shield yourself and your friends and family from any horrendous circumstances!

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The thought of a parent leaving (sometimes forgetting) their child alone in a car is unimaginable, but the reality is that this happens! On average, 40-50 kids die each year in the U.S from being left or forgotten in a vehicle. The cause of death?

The temperature inside a car on a summer day, even with the windows rolled down an inch, can quickly rise above 120 to 140 F. Even on a relatively mild day, the temperature inside a car can get above 100 F. At temperatures like this, kids are at high risk for heat stroke, which can lead to high fever, dehydration, seizures, stroke, and ultimately death.


You may believe the chances of this happening to your child are highly unlikely, I mean how could a parent possibly forget their child in the back seat? How could their child get into the car without their knowledge?

Well, The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration published these cases from the death certificates of 804 children who have died in hot cars since 1994. In approximately 55% of these cases, the parent was unaware the child was in the vehicle.


• A 6-month-old “baby died when accidentally left in hot car for three hours, died when outside 90 F temperatures rose to 130 F inside the closed car, parents thought the other had carried the baby from the car to crib.”

• A 9-month-old died after being “left strapped in child safety seat in a sweltering minivan for two hours – misunderstanding between child’s parents resulted in the child being left alone in the van; one parent believed infant was at home with other.”

• A 23-month-old died when a “relative babysitting child, put the child in the car for a trip to the store, went back in the house having forgotten something, was distracted by something on television, sat on the couch to watch, fell asleep, woke up two hours later.”

• A 2-year-old “child apparently slipped away from parents and siblings, fell asleep atop blanket in an unlocked car in the driveway of the home, oldest sibling found child 40 minutes later.”

• A 2-year-old died after a “parent left child in the car after returning home from errand – was left for more than an hour.”
These descriptions are shocking, to say the least. But these tragic and preventable deaths may all be put to an end thanks to a 12-year-old boy named Bishop Curry from McKinney, Texas.
The Oasis Device

Two years ago Bishop came up with the idea to invent a device called the Oasis. You can attach it to a headrest or car seat, and its purpose is to sense if a child is left alone while simultaneously monitoring the temperature inside the vehicle. Once the temperature gets to a certain level, that’s when the device blows out cold air all while also alerting parents and authorities.

He came up with the idea after his neighbor’s 6-month-old baby girl died from being left in an overheated car. Initially, he had made a 3-D clay model of the Oasis device with hopes to have enough money to manufacture the real product one day.

Since then he and his father have managed to raise $50,292 of their $20,000 goal on gofundme.com. This money is currently being put towards manufacturing the final product and securing the patent. According to nbcnews.com, Toyota, the car manufacturing company, was so impressed by Bishop’s idea that they sent him and his dad to Michigan for a safety conference.

His father proudly tells NBC that he works for Bishop, filling out his emails, answering his telephone calls, and taking Bishop to his meetings with the attorney. “People are donating to a belief, a belief that the world can change through one child,” says Bishop’s father.
So as parents wait for the day they can finally own this life-saving device, what can be done in the meantime to prevent such an unnecessary tragedy from happening?

Look Before You Lock: Make it a habit that you check the back seat each time you get out of the car before you lock the door, even if you aren’t transporting your child. Doing this every time will instill the habit.

• Get your kids out of the car first, and then worry about getting the groceries, etc., out of the car when you get home. 

• When running errands, don’t leave your child in a car. Even if it’s just a few minutes, a car can quickly heat up, especially on a hot, sunny day. 

• Keeping your car locked and your keys out of reach, so kids can’t get in the car by themselves. 

• If a child is missing, in addition to checking the backyard and any other areas, make sure to check inside the vehicle and trunk of any nearby cars. 

Leaving the car running and the air conditioning on doesn’t make your child any safer. The child could get abducted, or they could put the car in drive. Anything can happen! Currently, 20 out of the 50 states have laws against leaving children in vehicles unattended.
If you happen to come across an incident where someone has left their kid(s) in a car:

• Call 911 immediately.
• Use your judgment, if the child is in obvious distress get them out of the car ASAP!
• The police might tell you to break the window.
Final Note

Parents are not perfect, and mistakes can happen. However, it’s never okay to leave children alone inside a car. So please don’t do it. Take those extra precautions, store those keys in a place where they can’t be reached, be mindful, check the back seat, and always communicate with your partner, babysitter, or family about the whereabouts of your child.
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